Laura asks…
Any ways to move on from a disastrous break-up? Can you write tips on ways to move on from such a disaster…
Randall answers:
-go out with your mates and have laugh to take your minds of things
Joseph asks…
What are the fastest ways to move on from a break-up?
This isn’t just any bad break-up. This is a very bad break-up w/ the love of your life, wherein there was begging involved and threats to take someone’s life, desperate measures were done due to this break-up. So the question isn’t only how to move on but how to gain back your dignity as well
Randall answers:
Time is the only thing that’s going to help. If you have access to counseling now is the time to utilize it. Take time to reflect on who you are and why this may not have worked out. Was it really right in the first place? Are you better off? Try to gain back your self-confidence. Get a new haircut. Get some new clothes for a new look. Not completely different but just a little change. Go to a spa get your nails, hair, makeup etc. Also, don’t jump into finding someone else. It’s not fair to that person until you’ve healed from the prior breakup. You’ll still have the past relationship in your mind and heart.
ALSO, tarzenluver8 had a wonderful answer with GREAT ideas! Good luck
David asks…
My friend is starting to piss me off now, because everyday he is down and depressed from break up…
my friend is starting to piss me off now, because everyday he is down and depressed from break up… its
been like 3 months… and she clearly told him that its done
like every-time he calls her she is cold to him and she never calls him
like they dated for a year, but now its time for him to move on… like
as u know, break ups, if the girls not into you, the more you try like a stalker and always calling her
trying to get her back, you are digging your hole
dipper and making yourself sad, because if the girls not into you, she is not and she is over it.
and everyday he comes to chill(hang out) , i tell him to forget about it , don’t worry and not to call her
he calls her and talks to her and
always says shit like “she is just being plain cold, there is nothing there”
but than he calls her next day n the next day all the time
he always says shit like
“she broke my heart and i want to be with her, i just love her man, she was the one”
|it takes time it takes time to get out of depression n get better from break outs, it just takes time”
and trust me for past like 3 months, i been on his side, saying don’t worry and
u know all that friends do when their friends break up going threw hard time , being there for them
trying to take him out on weekends ,night out to make him feel better and bringing him to friends chilling
and everything and always trying to cheer him up and saying nice things to him to make him feel better
and giving him advices and everything
but now its getting on my nerve now, because he is always constantly depressed and all he talks about
is like his girl, how she broke his heart and talks about, i tell him to let it go, but he just doesn’t…
like i been a such a good friend in every way, always listening to him being depressed over the phone for
like longest time… now its just “ahhh! stfu!”
how do i deal with this!!! , its just so annoying now, its been like 3 months, n he is always depressed over it everyday i talk to him and always complaining n moaning about it n like im like man!!! move on!!
its just tough love!! but tough love is not working either!! so I’m so frustrated!! ahhh!
but now its just getting on my nerves now.. no one wants to be always around a downer.
i am a happy guy and i just don’t wanna deal with him anymore, but he is my best friend…
i am just running out of my patience..
Randall answers:
Better than being pissed on
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Its been a couple months after she broke up with me. And we texted a lot. Even after she broke up with me. But she was the one to always text me first. I would never text her first. Anyways, long story short. She got grounded and got her phone taken away so she couldn’t text anymore for about a month. And I felt so much better and happier. Then she started to text me one day and she seemed to like me again. And she told me that we could start to date again down the road. Then she left for camp for 2 weeks and when she got back she said her eyes were opened and she didn’t want to date me again and stuff. She just wanted to be single and chill for a while.
So now, she continues to text me to say what’s up. Should I just not text her back? Is that the best way for me to get over her? Is to have no contact from her what so ever? PLEASE reply soon. I don’t know what to do. And she always has said over and over. And still continues to say it : ” I have always pictured you and me getting married” I need advice.
Should I keep texting her and try to get back together?
Or should I move on?
And if I should move on, is the no contact thing the best way to get over her?